Lexington, KY - In their latest blog post, SUN Behavioral Health Kentucky’s Lexington location examined the impact of living with a spouse who has an alcohol use disorder and how people can help their loved one. Any relationship can be challenging to navigate, but if one partner has an alcohol use disorder, it can make the other partner feel like their loved one is choosing alcohol over them. Signs a spouse has an alcohol use disorder include drinking large quantities of alcohol, experiencing withdrawal symptoms, or spending their time thinking about drinking. If they attend an event that is not serving alcohol, they may begin to feel anxious.
“They might also have behavioral changes, such as becoming angry if you question their drinking habits or hiding or denying their drinking habits from you or others. Your spouse or partner might act as if alcohol is more important to them than you. These actions often isolate your spouse from the people in their life,” the blog post states.
The spouses of people with an alcohol use disorder often have to take on more responsibilities, such as the housework or children. The couple may have financial concerns due to the increasing amounts of alcohol that is bought. Sometimes, other people may stop inviting them to social events, or the spouse with an alcohol use disorder may become abusive or unfaithful, which leads to feelings of instability. In turn, the spouse without an alcohol use disorder may try to control their spouse, blame themselves, or make excuses. The impact of a spouse with an alcohol use disorder can feel isolating and lonely, but it doesn’t have to be.
If someone has a partner with an alcohol use disorder, remind them to put themselves first. If the situation is dangerous, safety is the number one priority. It is also important to use person-first language. This means using words such as “alcohol use disorder” instead of “drunk” or “addict” and “person with an alcohol use disorder” instead of “alcoholic.” Do not blame the spouse with an alcohol use disorder. People can develop this disorder for several reasons, such as genetics or a mental health disorder. It is also essential not to enable them. Offering support towards treatment is more beneficial to their well-being.
Having someone to talk to can help the spouse without an alcohol use disorder cope with their emotions. This can be a therapist, friend, or support group like Al-anon. There is often bitterness and frustration, which are okay to feel. If someone has a spouse with an alcohol use disorder and wishes to discuss it with them, here are some tips to keep in mind: approach them with respect and kindness, let them know they are still cared about, and the conversation will be without judgment, be honest with them about emotions and boundaries, and suggest a rehab facility they can attend to find recovery.
“You cannot ‘cure’ your spouse of their alcohol use disorder. Caring for your loved one can be a challenging circumstance. It is important to remember that a return to use is possible, and your loved one might have to go through the recovery process more than once. By keeping your expectations low, it will save you emotionally. Celebrate their accomplishments, as well. If your spouse seeks help, it is a positive thing. People recover every day,” the blog post continues.
SUN Behavioral Health Kentucky Lexington solves unmet needs in the community. They provide no-cost care assessments that enable potential patients to meet with a representative who will work with them, their doctors, and their medical history to match them with the best care plan and program for their needs. They can treat co-occurring disorders, allowing people to have more successful recoveries.
Call them at 859-429-5188 or visit their website to learn more. SUN Behavioral Health Kentucky solves unmet needs.
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